12. Incident #6: Facebook Friend Request / Incident #6 : La demande d’ami sur Facebook

Kevin and I used to play in mölkky tournaments around Belgium and in the north of France. We called our team “Novalike” (a mash up of letters from both of our names) and we created a joint Facebook account for our team. Kevin was so hypocritical in that he always bragged about not having Facebook … More 12. Incident #6: Facebook Friend Request / Incident #6 : La demande d’ami sur Facebook

15. Incident #7: Dinner With Andrea / Incident #7 : Le dîner avec Andrea

In about April or May 2015, Andrea and I decided to go out for dinner one evening. I sent Kevin a message asking him if he would like to join us. Even Andrea said that she would be happy if Kevin joined us. Kevin responded with, “Am I invited?”. I said of course, we were … More 15. Incident #7: Dinner With Andrea / Incident #7 : Le dîner avec Andrea

16. Hearing Men’s Voices In The Background / Les voix d’homme en bruit de fond

When I was in Spain (Chapter 21), while we were chatting on Skype, sometimes Kevin could hear my neighbours leaving their apartments. However, if Kevin heard men’s voices, he would freak out. He would think that I had men in the house. Other times when I was outside and talking to him through my mobile … More 16. Hearing Men’s Voices In The Background / Les voix d’homme en bruit de fond

17. Incident #8: Receiving Text Messages At Night / Incident #8 : Les SMS reçus un soir

When I was in Spain and we were Skyping one night, I received a number of text messages at about 10 o’clock. He began to freak out and asked me who it was. I said it was nobody he knew. Then he began to panic and freak out even more. He started to raise his … More 17. Incident #8: Receiving Text Messages At Night / Incident #8 : Les SMS reçus un soir

18. His Control In General: Pathological Jealousy And Pathological Envy / Son contrôle en général : jalousie et envie pathologiques

Kevin was an extremely controlling, pathologically jealous and pathologically envious (Chapter 94), insecure little man. I always had to be careful about what I did, what I said and who I spoke to. If I said something, did something or spoke to someone he didn’t like (most often another male), he would wait until we … More 18. His Control In General: Pathological Jealousy And Pathological Envy / Son contrôle en général : jalousie et envie pathologiques

19. His Money Problems And The Money He “Borrowed” From Me / Ses problèmes d’argent et l’argent qu’il m’a « emprunté »

Kevin claimed to be in a lot of financial trouble because he said he had a lot of financial responsibilities which included paying off his car loan and paying for his father’s medical bills. I don’t know if this is true of not. I now realise that nothing he ever said can be believed 100%. … More 19. His Money Problems And The Money He “Borrowed” From Me / Ses problèmes d’argent et l’argent qu’il m’a « emprunté »